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Sep. 29th, 2005 @ 11:07 pm Today is a bad day
I just learned that my boyfriend is in fact really pro-life. He likes to hide behind the "well I don't want to think about it" curtain to say nothing about the issue, but after bringing up S4C on a couple occasions and commenting about how quiet he gets- he finally decided to tell me his viewpoint.
I guess in all fairness he did say one pro-life thing before, but later rescended it. Claiming that he was just playing the devil's advocate. That he didn't really mean it.
Basically he's a Pro-Lifer who'd want me to abort if I got pregnant when he didn't want to have a kid [that what he used to say], but I'm sure he'd suddenly care about the morality of it all if I got pregnant and he wanted the kid. I'm so pissed off right now I'm seething. Before I started dating him, he told me he was pro-choice - that was one of the reasons I was attracted to him. But after hearing him go off about how the poor fetus was innocent and only needed to be incubated for just a little while, a woman's moral obligation is to keep the fetus alive, etc...

I'm so mad. [so I'm posting in a semi-dead community]
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You've got to be kidding me
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Date:September 30th, 2005 02:21 pm (UTC)
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This is the new one?
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Date:September 30th, 2005 05:43 pm (UTC)
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No, I forgive his "you're a whore" comment and took him back after about a week - basically he had been apologizing, he got a 17 yr old to jack him off and then he called me crying about it afterwords and about how dirty he felt, how he never did shit like that when he was with me, etc...
I probably shouldn't have, I'm just an idiot for being "needed" sometimes, which I'm aware is a very bad thing. Don't get me wrong, I do love the guy, I always have, but it seems like it's not meant to be.
At least it's rather easy to stop fucking him, given that I don't on a regular basis anyway, thanks to it being a LDR and all. I've been open about how I am very pro-choice, and will do anything to keep control over my own body- I consider it my choice whether or not I have kids.
I wish that conversation hadn't happened so late at night that he could lay a guilt trip on me about him having "a test tomorrow" so I could've called a few of his points.
The amusing thing was he went on and on about how horribly sick seeing a video of a live birth made him, while completely dismissing my point thta I'm sure the woman in the video was having a much harder time than him.